Thursday, September 23, 2010

Broken Homes!

It’s a typical love story. A guy falls in love with a girl.. he does all those kind of things that makes a girl fall in love in return.. they enjoy their relationship for days..months and years even.. by then it is time to take their relationship ahead.. how bad can it be they think?? And there they are lying down next to each other expecting it to be like any other day before realizing it is the beginning of their life..!! and what follows is misery.. stress… confusion.. the BLAME GAME..!! which the society has conveniently termed as MARRIAGE..!!

What happens when marriages fail?? there are BROKEN HOMES.

What are broken homes???

Broken home is a term used to describe a household, usually in reference to parenting, in which the family unit does not properly function according to accepted societal norms. This household might suffer from Domestic violence, a dissolved marriage, drug abuse, or anything else that interferes with the upbringing of children..

This is the technical meaning of course..!! what a broken home really is is something only those innumerous children who grow up with scars that are going to last a lifetime know..An unstable condition that is going to be a part of their life forever..!

The end to a relationship between two people causes misery to SO many people simultaneously..!! is that correct?

The findings say that children’s family backgrounds is very important

Government research has found Children from broken families are nearly five times more likely to suffer damaging mental troubles.

It is social canker worm that has eaten deep into the flesh of our dear society…

with time this issue just seems to become more and more serious..!! and at times there seems to be no solution.

Children who are a part of broken homes turn out to be extremist.. either they are one’s who never open to people or they become extremely violent and uncontrollable..

There are countless organizations who offer help to such children but will anyone ever understand that a child needs the love of his/her parents rather than some outsiders..

Sometimes we as humans become so selfish that we don’t think about all those people who love us and expect love in return from us.parenting the most beautiful experience in the world its not an easy task but at the same time its very simple.. it just requires lots of love and some understanding on the part of the parent.

But like I said before we humans just tend to become so selfish at times. We turn a blind eye towards those Little things that gives happiness or causes trouble to our child.

The research also states that children from broken sometimes tend to take it ahead in their marriage too.. and then it’s a vicious circle that continues and makes more and more people a part of it..!!

And sadly no one else can suggest a solution to this issue. it has to come from within us. There are lots of reasons why we behave the way we do. But we have no right to make anyone else suffer along with us!!! And every individual must understand this..!!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Pratik Mahajan- This One Is For You!

Whats the thing I cherish the most in my life you ask? I say freedom and not just freedom, the freedom to be. To me Rabindranath Tagore is the true symbol of being free, having a free will and doing things you want to if you want to. He didn’t like going to schools, he didn’t even attend many but he gave us the most beautiful National Anthem on this planet. An Anthem which defines us, an Anthem which makes us who we are. Its not just a song or a poem, its what we were destined to be. We all here were destined to be Indians and share this beautiful piece of literature among us. Don’t you think?

But then on second thoughts do you think If Rabindranath Tagore would not have been Rabindranath Tagore and there was no Rabindranath Tagore, would Jana Gana Mana still have been our National Anthem? Or would anyone else have come along and written the exact words Tagore wrote 99 years ago? Was Jana Gana Mana destined to our National Anthem? Are things supposed to be the way they are?

Are we destined to be who we are? Does everything happen for a reason? Well, I for one like to think so! If it is meant to be, then it will happen, no matter what you do, how you do it, if its supposed to rain, it will rain! All you have to do is be ready with your umbrella :)

Just a small thought. Period.

by pratik ashok mahajan.

are you kidding me dude?? you're ahhmazing... get out of the engineering muck and do something amazing in life..!! you deserve to be something so different and better..!! you have a vision.. the ability to be different.. and like ian says "i dont know why you're trying so hard to fit in when you're born to stand out"..!! :)

and so here's the way i decided to answer you're question a little differently this time even though its not really connected to you're article- DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOURSELF.. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE..!! :) :*