Sunday, November 21, 2010

Keep it Simple , Make it Special!

What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?

Simple things to do to live your life in a simple way...

à Don’t think about tomorrow or yesterday today

The most important thing about today is that it is today and not tomorrow or yesterday... so live for today... do things you think are good for today. Do what feels right at the moment... forget the wrongs you did yesterday. Don’t think about how what you’re doing now will affect tomorrow... cause if it feels really and truly right now its meant to be.. And everything that is meant to be sooner or later is right..!!

à Make a short list

If you have a few things you want to do in life let them remain few... make a new list every now and then.. Its mandatory to change... make a new list rather than add to the old list... cause what you need today may not be what you want tomorrow... but you will still do it only because its on your list.. Regretting it later... so keep it short and keep it new..!!

à Make time

Everyone has time... a day has 24 hours and not 30 because we don’t need 30… make time... do only those things that you like... why do we need to watch t.v?? Or sleep during the day?? Create that extra time in your 24 hours... if you try you will find that extra hour...

à Do one thing at a time

Though we are in the “multi tasking” era happiness can be found only when life is simple... so don’t complicate one thing at a time... if you want to learn to play the guitar do it now... but dont try to learn violin simultaneously... keep it simple...keep it straight.

à Eat well... sleep well

Eating and sleeping are time consuming and boring but unfortunately very essential... they tend to decide how you behave with people and how you react to what anyone says... and since we live between people we have to live with them..

à Be honest

It’s very essential that your life and every relationship you have is based on truth... honesty is the best policy, and saves a lot of heartache down the road. Of course the road to honesty is to become a person of exceptional integrity, which while difficult, is possible.

à Get rid of things now and then

Clean your wardrobe, your desk, your kitchen. Don’t let things that don’t help pile up...

à smile... smile a lot... and laugh... laugh a lot

Not only is it good for your heart, but also for you and the people near you.

You don’t need to do difficult things like yoga and self introspection to make life simple... just a few simple things hear and there and there and then there make life soo much more better. Live life rather than spending it...

Whenever you hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," go ahead and ask, "Compared to what?"

surround yourself with life's simple pleasures..take time to simplify life..!!


Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Just Another Evening!

He walks in and I'm busy staring at myself in the mirror.. I do know he's there but i don't bother..i know i'm not one of those who carries her luck along everywhere..he can't be anyone special.. just someone there..

We get on the dance floor and I dance like it’s the end of the world... I know nothing about him... I can’t even sense his presence...

Hours pass by and tonight I don’t seem to get tired... at least not very soon...

Soft music starts and me being the sensitive I- can’t take it now... I come out and sit on one side... I bend down cause my legs hurt and I don’t know who I have just seen...

Ummmm never mind - there I want to get wild tonight... I take my friends along to buy us some drinks... I realize I’m a devil... my heart tells me to look there again...but well the DEVIL...

I come back, drink, dance , eat for another few hours...but still don’t look back...

Well I still don’t know what made me go sit there... the hurting legs... the bad sound track...or that part of my heart that sensed him even before I realized..

But whatever played the trick...I’m gratefull...

I’m definitely high... he moves aside creating place for me... I look up and for the first time see him...

how did i not notice him before?? :O

Well never mind... I’m tired... just want to sit there for a while and ill be on the dance floor in no time...I know..!!

A part of me is hoping he’d talk though... why doesn’t he ask me anything??

Huh? What’s wrong with me? I’m sure he thinks I’m a drunken bitch!! Why would anyone just talk like that...??

Ummm... what if i talk?? well I’m sure I’ll be excused... especially if he really thinks I’m drunk I don’t have much to lose, right?!

“Why aren’t you dancing??”...

Seriously?? :O .. That’s what I just asked??

Yeah great... now he thinks I’m desperate I’m sure...he’s so going to make a face and answer for the heck of it...

But he bends down... I don’t understand it first and then I realize he couldn’t hear me...

I go close and ask him again... he looks up... smiles... and says “I don’t feel like”….

And I do remember this smile I have on my face from sometime... :)

Well Just one time like any other time when I feel in love for the first time….

Friday, November 12, 2010

He Loves you , He loves You Not!

5 sure signs that say it's time to get rid of your boy friend

è First sign: His phone is always busy

That clearly means he has someone else.

Seriously don’t let him hurt you. Go before he asks you to!

è He keeps asking you who you were talking to if you’re phone is busy.

Means either he’s getting over possessive or is just faking it to hide his guilt.

Either way save yourself...RUN…!!

è He says the following things:

· I think you should start exercising

· I think I should concentrate on my studies and not talk on the phone so often.

· He tells you every night at 10 that he wants to sleep.

· He comments on your dressing sense.

· And most importantly and essentially:

He says: "now stop getting on my nerves"...

(That’s personally the most irritating thing you can tell me..!! :S :S

Accept it “he is not interested in you anymore”. He has something better to do. And he thinks you’re a total waste of time. And has seen this better girl who he hopes to date. So expects you to do things the way she does so he can picture you while fantasizing about her and not feel like he’s cheating on you...(if you know what I mean :P).And getting on his nerve?? Seriously?? That’s soo offending... :O

Don’t waste your time… he’s a looser..!!

è He holds your wrist and not your fingers...he kisses on your neck and not your forehead...he takes you out for movies rather than walks...

It’s clear. He doesn’t have lots to say. He’s bored. He’d rather be physical with you than get bored listening to you Talk about your girls.

Seriously?? A guy lusting for you is not such a nice feeling... take it from me..!!

è He’s drunk more than he’s sober

Okay fine he might not be cheating on you, but it still means he loves something else a whole heck of a lot more than he loves you. And it’s only going to lead to trouble down the road. Sure, maybe now he’s only drinking a case of beer a day, but in a year it might be a keg a day. That’s expensive. And it brings trouble. Trouble you don’t need.

Dump. Him. Flat.

Okay now honestly what a girl needs to understand is that though guys pretend to be powerful, authoritative and difficult they are the simplest species on this planet.

All they need is lots of love. . Lots of pampering, care, attention...Their space. A sense of security...and...Less of crap...

Don’t leave them guessing... don’t make them do a lot of work... smile when they say something nice.dont keep reminding them their weaknesses and mistakes.

Keep them happy and they’ll do the same.

They are adorable... love them... and leave them when they want to be left... don’t cry, crib, and create a scene... let go...they will come back if they truly deserve you... if they don’t then someone else will..!! ;)

So if anyone's reading... do this and you'll have the awesome-est. time ever with the awesome-est. guys ever.

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Friday, November 5, 2010

No Motive For This One!

So what happens when A guy who you’re used to just breaks up with you…a guy who is just plain hot suddenly starts staring at you .. and you fall for the most random guy you bet you would never fall for...???

You go no where and so does you’re “love life”…

it gets messy.. and even ugly in my case..

You cannot have you’re mourning period.. and you feel incomplete post break up..

You cannot stare back because you’re too guilty to..

And you cannot help but fall for the other guy..( however you mess it up cause of the issues with the first two guys)…

and you're not even in the right frame of mind to sort it out..

Moral of the story: guys suck.. :@ :@ :@ :@

p.s : and so do i..!! :O :O :O :O

p.p.s : and so does my life..!! :S :S :S :S

p.p.p.s : I need to run away..!! :S :S :S :S

*goes back to listening to weird depressing music*

*and there - the first tear*

*feels stupid*

*stops music*

*starts reading*

to be continued........