No Motive For This One!

So what happens when A guy who you’re used to just breaks up with you…a guy who is just plain hot suddenly starts staring at you .. and you fall for the most random guy you bet you would never fall for...???

You go no where and so does you’re “love life”…

it gets messy.. and even ugly in my case..

You cannot have you’re mourning period.. and you feel incomplete post break up..

You cannot stare back because you’re too guilty to..

And you cannot help but fall for the other guy..( however you mess it up cause of the issues with the first two guys)…

and you're not even in the right frame of mind to sort it out..

Moral of the story: guys suck.. :@ :@ :@ :@

p.s : and so do i..!! :O :O :O :O

p.p.s : and so does my life..!! :S :S :S :S

p.p.p.s : I need to run away..!! :S :S :S :S

*goes back to listening to weird depressing music*

*and there - the first tear*

*feels stupid*

*stops music*

*starts reading*

to be continued........

Dreams!

The definition of happiness is different for different people but the definition of unhappiness is more or less the same...

Unhappiness visits me more than often... this time I am unhappy because I am not sure with what I am doing with my life...or if what im doing is what iv always wanted to do..

I want to try different things... I want to do lots of things... I want to study literature... I want to be a chef...i want to travel…i want to find answers... I want to meet people... I want to fall in love…more than once...I don’t want people judging me... or telling me what to do... I want to decide what’s right for me and I want to grow... I want to laugh when I do something wrong and then go and make it right... I don’t need someone telling me how stupid I was...

I want to get drunk every night… cause I know I won’t do it after a while...i want to learn things my way and I want to find that way...I don’t want someone showing me the way because I am sure that’s the wrong way...

I don’t mind not ever finding that one right person if I’ve met a lot of wonderful wrong people on the way...

I don’t want to be a corporate slave... I want to write... read and live by the hills someday...i

I don’t mind a life I share with just myself...if that’s what would make me happy...a friend of mine keeps telling me how I “will” die alone and I don’t mind that only if I have done all I wanted to by the end of this life..!!

Life’s a mess right now... but I know it’l be right... cause I know I have it in me to do better if not greater things and I know I just need time..!!

i know someday i will find a way to live this dream..and i know the day will come sometime soon..cause this dream that i am chasing is mine and mine alone..

Broken Homes!

It’s a typical love story. A guy falls in love with a girl.. he does all those kind of things that makes a girl fall in love in return.. they enjoy their relationship for days..months and years even.. by then it is time to take their relationship ahead.. how bad can it be they think?? And there they are lying down next to each other expecting it to be like any other day before realizing it is the beginning of their life..!! and what follows is misery.. stress… confusion.. the BLAME GAME..!! which the society has conveniently termed as MARRIAGE..!!

What happens when marriages fail?? there are BROKEN HOMES.

What are broken homes???

Broken home is a term used to describe a household, usually in reference to parenting, in which the family unit does not properly function according to accepted societal norms. This household might suffer from Domestic violence, a dissolved marriage, drug abuse, or anything else that interferes with the upbringing of children..

This is the technical meaning of course..!! what a broken home really is is something only those innumerous children who grow up with scars that are going to last a lifetime know..An unstable condition that is going to be a part of their life forever..!

The end to a relationship between two people causes misery to SO many people simultaneously..!! is that correct?

The findings say that children’s family backgrounds is very important

Government research has found Children from broken families are nearly five times more likely to suffer damaging mental troubles.

It is social canker worm that has eaten deep into the flesh of our dear society…

with time this issue just seems to become more and more serious..!! and at times there seems to be no solution.

Children who are a part of broken homes turn out to be extremist.. either they are one’s who never open to people or they become extremely violent and uncontrollable..

There are countless organizations who offer help to such children but will anyone ever understand that a child needs the love of his/her parents rather than some outsiders..

Sometimes we as humans become so selfish that we don’t think about all those people who love us and expect love in return from us.parenting the most beautiful experience in the world its not an easy task but at the same time its very simple.. it just requires lots of love and some understanding on the part of the parent.

But like I said before we humans just tend to become so selfish at times. We turn a blind eye towards those Little things that gives happiness or causes trouble to our child.

The research also states that children from broken sometimes tend to take it ahead in their marriage too.. and then it’s a vicious circle that continues and makes more and more people a part of it..!!

And sadly no one else can suggest a solution to this issue. it has to come from within us. There are lots of reasons why we behave the way we do. But we have no right to make anyone else suffer along with us!!! And every individual must understand this..!!

Pratik Mahajan- This One Is For You!

Whats the thing I cherish the most in my life you ask? I say freedom and not just freedom, the freedom to be. To me Rabindranath Tagore is the true symbol of being free, having a free will and doing things you want to if you want to. He didn’t like going to schools, he didn’t even attend many but he gave us the most beautiful National Anthem on this planet. An Anthem which defines us, an Anthem which makes us who we are. Its not just a song or a poem, its what we were destined to be. We all here were destined to be Indians and share this beautiful piece of literature among us. Don’t you think?

But then on second thoughts do you think If Rabindranath Tagore would not have been Rabindranath Tagore and there was no Rabindranath Tagore, would Jana Gana Mana still have been our National Anthem? Or would anyone else have come along and written the exact words Tagore wrote 99 years ago? Was Jana Gana Mana destined to our National Anthem? Are things supposed to be the way they are?

Are we destined to be who we are? Does everything happen for a reason? Well, I for one like to think so! If it is meant to be, then it will happen, no matter what you do, how you do it, if its supposed to rain, it will rain! All you have to do is be ready with your umbrella :)




Just a small thought. Period.

by pratik ashok mahajan.

are you kidding me dude?? you're ahhmazing... get out of the engineering muck and do something amazing in life..!! you deserve to be something so different and better..!! you have a vision.. the ability to be different.. and like ian says "i dont know why you're trying so hard to fit in when you're born to stand out"..!! :)

and so here's the way i decided to answer you're question a little differently this time even though its not really connected to you're article- DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOURSELF.. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE..!! :) :*

Belief VS Destiny!

i have always been this person who believes that she has the ability to change her destiny..if there's something wrong written in my destiny i will change it..and i will always continue to belive so..i have always felt that you can control your life..that things will happen your way..

So on the first day of college i was pretty sure what i was there for.. it was the first time i was going to be around people who din't know me..where i could create a whole new world for myself..i knew exactly what and when i was going to do things..

It did start of pretty well.. But now after 3weeks i have a feeling that its not me who is controlling my life but its the other way round..life is making me say and do things it has in store for me.. without me even realizing..

i have in the past never been so conscious about what i am doing or how i behave.. recently i was making a genuine effort to set things right..

however it seems like that's not how its supposed to be..and the impatient me wants to ask questions.. wants to know how it actually works..!!

so who decides what you deserve?? who knows you better than yourself?? why do you often see people who deserve happiness in pain?? why should there be pain?? why cant a person decide how his/her life should be??

and the toughest question is: am i or anyone ever going to find answers to these questions?

or should i believe that the moment before one dies one finds the answers to all the questions?? but what if i want to know the answers now??

that means that my belief that i can control my life is faulty...right??

Cause I can express best this way!

CAUSE I BELIEVE "LOVE" CAN BE BEAUTIFUL

CAUSE THE MAGIC DOES SPREAD..

CAUSE I WISH IT WAS SOO SIMPLE..

CAUSE THERE'S ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE...

CAUSE HE ALWAYS MAKES YOU FEEL SOO MUCH BETTER..

CAUSE YOU CAN NEVER CHOOSE....

CAUSE THE The trouble with love is.....It can tear you up inside....Make your heart believe a lie...It's stronger then your pride.....The trouble with love is...It doesnt care how fast you fall...And you canT refuse the call...See youve got no say at all...!!

Cambiar!

I had stopped accepting this in a while - im utterly “GIRLY”…. I love different colours.. ..I love ice creams and chocolates.. I love soft music… I adore clothes.. I njoy lookin good(and girly which I havnt been lookin in the last 2yrs)…and I love “love stories”.. I love reading or watchin them….

In the last 2yrs I had neglected the GIRL within me..!! who regardless of how tuff and straight forward she was loved coming back home and spending her solitude time reading and watchin love stories..

So when I came back to my senses and realized what b***s*** I have been doin and what kind of people iv been givin importance n my time I knew it was time to go back to being – ME..!!

My first step was to remove all those things that meant nothing to me anymore and should hav never meant anthing to me.. I threw away all my clothes and books I used in jc..

I basically made place for my brand new “LIFE”….

Next step was buying a phone that wud be just rite for me.. and I gt the perfect thing..

it is white.. it twinkles.. and is absolutely affordable..!

My favourite step was obvsly - SHOPPING..!! lots and lots of shopping..!! globus…provogue…remanika…pantaloons…westside...109 degree f…AND…miss players….etc…etc….

Lots of colours and lots of frills..!!

Then it was time for a super cool haircut…(though I wasn’t pretty successful as far this step ws concerned.. who do I blame?? My hair ofcourse.. and they blame me in return for havin nt taken care of them.. n I cn jus say I had fun with them..)

And finally some good sleep..

In this last one mnth I did everythin I love.. I shopped.. I watched amazing love stories.. I read lots n lots of books…I danced… I ate like a pig..(put on 2kgs..but iv stopped worrying abt for now)…. I LIVED..!!

N there I was all set… the one mnth has without doubt been the best mnth of my life..!! ;)